With the ever growing epidemic of shoppaholics (and yes I admit that I am one) I thought I would do a good deed and allow us to confide together. I am sure everyone loves to shop but when does shopping become an obsession and would you say it is healthy. I know us ladies like to use the excuse retail therapy (well I do anyway) but when does therapy become addiction. Although people shop to make themselves feel better, the emotional attachments can also sometimes be dangerous. For example when I am sad I shop, when im happy I shop, etc etc. However I have no children & no major commitments, no credit cards (except a pre-paid one) I make good money, I save so therefore I kind of feel saved from the monster of debt.

However, I know no one is untouchable! Plus I live, work and go to uni in the city so I constantly find my self buying things on the way home which is a dangerous habit to develop. I’m not sure about in the US but in the UK many people are feeling the crunch with the constant changes to the economy and more and more people are in debt. With constant programmes like Shopaholics & Spendaholics always on TV people are no longer even scared of being the in debt its just becoming the norm and this is where the problem lies. According to my friend and her debt “f%$* it life’s to short if it gets bad ill just go on Spendaholics or something and make them deal with it”

??????????? What, come again? I could not believe it, This is the wrong attitude to have. You have to think about the future and the consequences that may not be present at this moment. I hope not all think like this please do not end up in that state of mind. Below is some tips, to help you stay fab but shop wise:

1. Always pay by cash, if you have a card don’t use it.
2. Make a shopping list and stick to it…..well try to anyway
3. Save first then shop, I apologise that should have been first
4. Avoid shopping from catalogs, always pay upfront and whole and never in installments
5. Also lose the big pride who-har if you cant afford something you cant afford it put it down until you can. “Money is nothing for he who cant save“. Remember that! Because if you dont save its no good having it cause soon it will be gone.

I hope this helps QueenB.D xoxoxo

BabyDolls we are now approaching our 6th month of the year, so you may as well call it mid year, what changes have we made so far that are different from those of before? What were the resolutions that you set on the 1st of January have you accomplished what you had hoped to accomplish? BabyDolls you have to be at the top of your game, there is only one person in control of your well-being and that is you so make sure your doing what your suppose to, do not keep putting things off because like the saying says: “you will put it all til tomorrow…too late“. There must have been a reason why you joined that gym, you paid all that money and have only been once!! You better pack your gym bag for tomorrow and get stepping! Or did you plan to be more healthy this year, remember a healthy heart is a healthy start, put the phone down no takeout for you tonight!

The point I am trying to make is stay on track! I know there are many twist and turns in life that steer you from where you want to go but it is up to you to shout timeout, re-evaluate and get it together. What ever you resolutions were whether large or small its not too late you still have another 6 whole months. Just do not forget about them completely.

I am sorry for ranting if you have stuck to your goals whether stopped smoking, saved for your holiday, gone back to education whatever I applaud you well done go and have a glass of rosé and be fabulous lol

But for those who have slipped alittle it is OK at least you have been reminded. Get back on track and be the best you can be. Life is about regenerating yourself constantly. However if you didn’t bother to set any resolutions this year why not set a few goals. Don’t feel strained you haven’t got to write an essay just a few lines occupying a few minutes stating short, medium and long term goals and see if you can strive to achieve them all.

BabyDolls believe me there is nothing better than ticking off a goal you have achieved and feeling you are closer to where you should be, I hope my words have helped

QueenB.D xoxoxo

BabyDolls feast your eyes on this, here we have a Satin Thread Through Cowl Top and to say it is divine is an understatement! It comes in pink emerald and green, but the green is whats rocking it for me so go get yours from our trusted faithful |Here| With the weather looking slightly dull, I am sure this purchase will brighten up your week.

Now lets be honest, we all know that keeping everything silky smooth is an essential. Well endure pain no more because BaByliss has released this new BaByliss Simply Smooth Wax Kit. I know you hearing wax and thinking Oh Hell No, but just a sec let Queen.B.D explain. You can get salon style wax treatment at home with this BaByliss Simply Smooth Wax Kit. It uses specially formulated wax with a temperature hand held heating unit. The new wax strip formulation ensures less adhesion to the skin and hair only! Meaning Less Pain! The wax is formulated to stick to hair and not skin leaving you with silky and smooth professional results. Suitable for use anywhere on the body. I decided to do this post because I recently heard of another horror story with Laser Hair Removal treatment. I don’t know why us ladies put ourselves through this. Although many are professional there are still some performing Laser removal treatment with the wrong tools and wrong training and yes disastrous effects can happen to us Black ladies too scarring us forever so to avoid your legs looking like this (view at your own discretion) |Oh Hell No| go get a BaByliss wax kit or an epilator at least! These BaByliss Simply Smooth kits currently retail around £39.95 so do the right thing and go and get yours xoxoxo

And the award goes to……. Miss Naomi Campbell , Naomi cooked up quite a storm at the Cannes film festival she looked amazing ! However it’s not always all’s well that ends well . Naomi celebrated her 38th Birthday party hosted by Diddy on his yacht, word is due to her divaish commands and performances not only did he have to put her in line but miss campbell was also chucked off the yacht crying with tears. Well maybe this will cheer you up because I think Naomi deserves the BDK Smackalicious Award for looking so ravishing at the festival.

However The BDK GoodnessGracious Award goes to none other than Miss Fantasia Burrito, I don’t know where she is trying to go with this hair style or what trend she is trying to set but it is not working, take 4 fashion police points and get another rinse and dye.

Word is Foxy Brown has been spotted around town sporting a large diamond encrusted engagement ring . Now it has been rumoured for some time that she may have been engaged, but a ring on the ring finger definetly comfirms this BabyDolls, congrats to Foxy, only thing im wondering is, who the hell is the dude. Hes like the invisible man. By the way the picture above is a similar to the ring Ms Foxy has been seen sporting. Remember, you didnt hear it from me xoxoxo

Are we loving D.Woods new hair style, I actually think it’s a good look. I still dont think she has found the right style for her face yet but its waaayyy better then the last one. She looks great. Do you agree?

Mrs Beckham spotted doing the rounds with her new Miu Miu Harlequin IT bag . I love Miu Miu, and this bag is kinda different. I would be lying if I said I wasn’t feeling it. Wear that bag girl show em’ how its done! For those that don’t know it was the football finals yesterday to determine who goes on to the European Championship. It was Manchester United vs Chelsea and of course my team Man-U won. You wanted to see the Chelsea guys crying, looking like the didnt know what to do with themselves, some because of the game and some cause that means less money and less money = repo man! Not all of theres cars are brought you know. I know this but you didnt hear it from me

I was asked a question the other day from a friend I rate fairly close. She had told me her boyfriend had been cheating on her and she was obviously distraught. I felt for her, as per usual it was another case of beautiful girl, dumb guy but then she asked me what would you do with a cheat? I was kinda taken aback, I thought I’d only have to comfort her and not answer any questions, but when I thought about it, it got me thinking, what the hell do you do when you catch your man cheating ???? I have dealt with bad break-ups, guys acting shading and the usual BS some guys bring but I have never dealt with a cheat. So I told her like it is.

I know your hurting, I know you cant stop thinking about it at this moment, but what you need to do, is go home put on your favourite song drink a glass of wine or champagne, take a bath relax, read, watch tv, dance in your bed room in your underwear lol. Do whatever you need to do to know that your a Queen and he was a tramp. I told her Be Glad !

Don’t be mad just be glad you no-longer have to deal with him, be glad it wasn’t even longer down the line, be glad that as a result of his actions you have almost been released, your free of him. You now have the oppourtunity to find what you truly deserve because he obviously was not the one and your king is still out there! Don’t be sad just continue and guess what things will be OK x

I posted this because I hope this not only helped my friend but I hope this post also helped anyone else that might be going through what she was going through. If you ever have a problem share it and ill see if I can help. You know where I am…

Queen.B.D xoxoxo

Gosh you guys don’t understand. I was so glad when Kimora finaly developed her KLS line, I love BabyPhat, but be truthful you know it’s was getting too around the way . I don’t know about you but I cannot be wearing the same things as my little cousins! Plus sometimes you just want that added luxury. So as per usual I was doing my thing and well my, my, my what have I found here you say. Well none other than this Sexy mint dress, It’s so BabyDoll it’s a crime! Those that know me know I love my dresses and I have found a Reverse Draped Dress by KLS you can get this luxuriously satiny soft beauty that will have heads snapping all night. I command you go get yours now!! |Here | Just look at the intricate ruffled detail on the back, its gorgeous !

Ok so I was seeing what BabyPhat had to offer, because I haven’t made a purchase in a while I came across this beautiful tanned Metallic Haze Hobo bag. Its Classy, its Sexy its Sheek. It comes in black also, but you know how I feel about black items, you have to stand out from the crowd and be seen so go get your tan hobo! |Here |

BabyDolls check out these sexy sleek peep toes, I have a thing for yellow plus I have noticed I seem to be adding to my patent collection. Don’t get me started on the two-tone which is just a beautiful finish. The shoe Garlanda by Aldo. For only £60 these definitely worth a purchase they come in 5 smackalicious colours so go get yours! |Here |

So with university drawing to an end for the year, and the roller coaster ride I have already had to the start of this year, it would be accurate in me saying I am due for my holiday! That’s right here I come for my shopping, indulging and revitalisation. But let’s not stop there, what about the overall experience every BabyDoll should travel in first class at least once in a while if not at all times. However, I understand that not everybody has it like that , and when there is a will there is a way and best believe there are ways and means to doing everything. If you can afford to splurge, book that first class seat, it’s not like you don’t deserve it. Not everyone wants to be sitting in the carriage with someone snoring loud, the sneezing passenger a few rows down or the crying baby at the back. However, the art of being a BabyDoll is being clever with your money so if you don’t have it like that don’t purchase a first class flight to be sitting in here looking broke because you have blown your earnings. Be sensible!

So you ask, Queen.B.D. How do I get myself into first class? And I say, BabyDolls its simple there are few strict rules you should follow, in order for you to blag yourself that first class seat.

1. Arrive early! The later you leave it the less chance you will have an available seat. I’ve heard many people say it’s best to arrive as late as possible so they have to bump you to first class but as far as im concerned this is a dumb move more like more chance for them to tell you, you have to take a later flight because they don’t have to bump you anything.

2. Travel alone , they are not going to give you, Krista, Charmaine and Tammy an upgrade, either meet your friends at your destination or ride with your friends for a change

3. Dress the part! Your trying to be up in first class the least you can do is look the part . Contrary to belief not everyone in first class is all glammed out with wide sunglasses and bling, they look more casual and ready for a flight, dress smart, dress tidy look be confident and pleasant.

4. Your attitude, or should I say lack of it. Be nice, be confident and confidently ask for your upgrade. Notice I say your upgrade . It’s not rocket science; the worst they can say is there are no more available. However be discreet about it (*not in a shady way) If your talking at the top of your voice, and bragging that you just got an upgrade then guess what, everyone else is going to want one. So keep it on the low. Don’t make them feel like they have made a mistake. When you get it say thanks be nice and enjoy your flight . Oh and always be nice to the gate attendant, they have a lot of power to you know

OK so I have seen these images that have been swimming around the net of Ms Kimora Lee. Everyone has way too much say about this lady. Personally I love her and think she definitely goes down in the BabyDoll hall of fame. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this picture. Every Queen has her day, So what she stepped out with no makeup?? Props to her I say!! Come on people we know she is fabulous 99% of the time so why not let her have this one day off. Are we forgetting shes a mogul and a mom? Give her a break. I think she looks fab, So instead of a Goodnessgracious award she definitely gets a Smackalicious award!

However! What the hell was Spinderella thinking she always looks a hot mess she gets the GoodnessGracious award, with her “I think im an original member of Salt n’ Peppa a** “. She gets 10 fashion police points, with no bail.

Its that time of year where the University year is coming to an end and for the working BabyDoll its time to book that holiday. So why not shop for your bikini’s from now to get that sexy beach look for your holidays. I have found three fantastic looks. All ranging in prices as usual from your penny saver to bank breaker! I found head turning V Suit for only £20, A grown but sexy French Connection Sequin Beach Kaftan at a sale price of £36. And last but not least the Bank Breaker, my favourite (because you know I love Cavalli) a Just Cavalli Bandeau Beach Dress for a reasonable price of £100. Take a look for yourself (in order or lowest first) All can be purchased from |Here|

Check this, I was looking for a nice summer day dress I could wear to work and instead I found this. I absolutley love it! I think its classy I think its sexy and its suitable for work so you too get your Belted Ralph Lauren Shirtdress. Its £77 ($150) but quality lasts so make that purchase! |Here|

OK so I get this email today about SmashBox’s new Gloss and Glow cheek and lip tints. To be honest at first I wasn’t too fused but now I’m glad I carried on reading. They look fab BabyDolls Check this out, Ones for your lips and ones for your cheeks and the amazing part is, the tint changes to match your skin chemistry. So no two persons reactions will be the same. Create your own glow with these Gloss & Glow complex tints. Available |Here| unfortunately at this current moment you have to buy them individually, but you never know if you hunt you might find a set!

Save your cash by investing in these YSL Manicure Pens, Isn’t this great! If you haven’t got a pair you better get some quick! Cause’ you are missing out. There small light and easy to pop into your handbag. Easy to use you can cut down your costs at going to get your nails done. Do them yourself at home. Not only are you saving pennies but you adding to your you time. Giving you more time to relax and pamper yourself. They retail at £30 which I feel is well worth it. A one time purchase and these pens will last months. Essentail for any BabyDoll get them from your nearest Debenhams or online |Here|. Have fun painting, xoxoxo

Check this Givenchy has provided us with Glitter to Go Fresh & Shine body gel. Comes in small sachets to ad instant glam. Mix well into your usual body lotion to change from day to night and look fab. You can get them |Here| Shine like a star on your night on the town.

I am loving Keyshia Coles new curls, I know she has since died her hair black but this blonde classique style hair-do is my ultimate favourite. It’s timeless, its classy, its sexy. Such a BabyDoll look. Maybe CL is right maybe I should let go of my locks for the summer.